We discussed this at a “Young Women and the Economy” roundtable discussion presented by Generation Progress in Las Vegas this evening. Yes, motherhood can be expensive and it can derail a career path. I took the “mommy track” many times and my salary suffered, my resume may have some gaps, and I may have been paid less than a fair wage in the future because of it, However, I will never regret putting my career second to being available to be there for my children when they needed me. No one could do it better than me (but I could be replaced at work) and no one would ever appreciate what I have done for them in my jobs like my daughters appreciate the time I gave to their development. I will say, though, that I do not agree with the mindset that would justify paying a woman less because of gaps in her resume (one of the common excuses for the gender pay gap). First, we should value, as a society, the sacrifices people make to nurture the next generation. Second, motherhood and childcare can help develop extraordinary management skills and experience. Third, when I returned to a management position after a Mommy-track sabbatical, I was told that I would earn less than a man who didn’t have a gap in his resume. I asked if I would then be expected to do less of the work or achieve less of the requirements for my job. No. If the gap doesn’t affect performance then it shouldn’t affect the amount we are paid.
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